What makes Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim humorous is David Sedaris’
ability to distance himself from the person he once was. Many autobiographers
evoke sympathy by detailing the various trials that they suffered in their
earlier lives; conversely, they ask us to rejoice in those formative events
that made them who they are today. I think Sedaris wants to avoid these self-aggrandizing
tropes, and so approaches the events of his early life with a great deal of
irony. In fact, it seems that he himself is the target of almost all of these
stories. Even when describing a transformative and possibly traumatic moment in
his development (“Hejira”), he allows himself some distance from the intensity
of the scene and assumes the position of an ignorant bystander: “just another
crying mother and her stoned gay son, sitting in a station wagon and listening
to a call-in show about birds…” While the younger Sedaris of “Consider the
Stars” drools over the popular crowd at middle school—even into his high school
years!—the older writer recalling the story puts the narrative into its
appropriate perspective and laughs at the sheer irrelevance of teenage drama.
Last week, we brought up
self-deprecation for the first time in the course. While we might debate
whether laughter directed at others has the power to change the world for the
better (e.g. Voltaire’s Candide), I
think that self-deprecating humor is a healthy and normal part of human
development. If I can’t laugh at the person I was five years ago, it means that
all his insecurities and failures are still with me, and that I haven’t moved
on and learned to use my mistakes to develop. The younger Sedaris, particularly
in his interactions with his parents and other adults, appears naïve and innocent,
and their failures are brushed off as odd eccentricities; in turn, the writer
recognizes all the challenges of adulthood that were unapparent to the child. In
this, he shows how he well he has come to recognize adult behavior and how he,
as an adult, has improved upon the people his parents were.
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